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13年ほど前、知り合いの中には同業者も多数いました。今はもう、その人々は同業者ではなくなってしまったのですが（やめてしまった人が多い）当時はよく、自分のところに来るクライアントのことで悩んでいた人が多かったです。私は「えー、そんな人いる？」と思ってしまうようなひどいクライアントの話を、彼女たちからたくさん聞きました。
意味不明なクレームを言って来る彼女たちのクライアントは、相手がセラピストやヒーラーだからって、なんでも受け止めてもらえるとでも思っていたのでしょうか？それとも、自分がお客様の立場なんだから神様扱いしろよ、とでも？
そのようなことを思うと、私のセッションを受けてくださる方々は、本当に良識のあるとても良い方々ばかりだと、当時、改めて思いましたが、あれから13年以上が経っても、私のところには良い方々ばかりが来て下さっています。昔、同業者の人々が言っていたような、大変そうな人は、全くと言っていいほど私のところには来ていません。
私は基本的に、他責にする人が嫌いです。そして、自分が得することばかりしか考えていないような人、批判ばかりする人もです。
例えば、自分の不幸や、物事がスムーズに運ばないことなどを、他人のせいにする人。
すべて自分自身が、物事の停滞を招いている事を認めたくないのだと思います。
愚痴を延々と話し続けて、あ〜スッキリした！などと言う人。
愚痴を聞く人の身になった事がない…というよりは、元々がネガティブだから、愚痴のエネルギーの低さに気づけない、そして、愚痴を吐くことは、すなわちネガティブエネルギーを相手に投げつけているのと同じことだということに、気づけないのだと思います。
批判ばかりする人は、誰だって嫌いだと思います。
何の得もないし、全く建設的ではありません。
私は、何か目標や叶えたい事があって、それに向かって努力する人が好きです。
それはもちろん人によって異なりますが、例えば、会社が繁栄していくことや、自分が行っているビジネスのチャンスを掴む。勤め人であればお給料やボーナスのアップや、就きたい役職に就くなど。恋人と出会う、結婚する、好きだった場所に引っ越して家を持つ、または辛い状況から早く脱して、望み通りの人生を歩みたいなど。大きな事柄でも、身近な事柄でも、人が望み通りの未来を手に入れるのを見るのが大好きです。
一方、そういった望みを持っていても、何も努力をせずに、ただ待っているだけの人は、私とは全くエネルギーが合わないと思います。私も基本的に獲得していく人なので。
何か目標や叶えたい事があって、それに向かって努力する人を応援しています。
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About 13 years ago, a number of people I knew were in the same profession. Now those people are no longer my peers (many of them have quit), but at the time, many of them often had problems with clients coming to them. I was like, “Wow, who would be like that?” I heard many stories from these women about clients who were so bad that I thought, “Oh my God, who is that?
Did they think that their clients would accept anything just because they were therapists or healers? Or did they think that since they were the clients, they should be treated like gods?
When I think about such things, I realized again at the time that the people who come to my sessions are really sensible and very good people, and more than 13 years have passed since then, and I still have good people coming to me. The people who seem to have a hard time, as people in my industry used to say, have not come to me at all.
I basically dislike people who blame others. I also dislike people who only think about what they can get out of it, or people who criticize others all the time.
For example, people who blame others for their own unhappiness or the fact that things are not running smoothly.
I think they don't want to admit that they themselves are causing things to stagnate.
People who complain endlessly and then say, “Oh, I feel so much better now! I feel so much better!
I think it's not so much that they have never put themselves in the shoes of those who listen to them...it's more that they are negative by nature, so they cannot recognize the low energy level of their complaints, and they cannot realize that complaining is the same as throwing negative energy at the person they are complaining to. I think that is the same as throwing negative energy at the other person.
I think everyone hates people who criticize all the time.
They have nothing to gain and are not constructive at all.
I like people who have a goal or something they want to achieve and work hard toward it.
That varies from person to person, of course, but for example, a company thrives and seizes opportunities in the business they are conducting. If you are a working person, it could be an increase in salary or bonus, or getting the position you want to hold. For example, meeting the love of your life, getting married, moving to a place you love and owning a house, or getting out of a difficult situation quickly and living the life you want. I love to see people get the future they want, whether it is big or small.
On the other hand, people who have those desires but don't make any effort and just wait and see, I don't think their energy matches mine at all. I am basically an acquisition person myself.
I support people who have some goal or something they want to achieve and work towards it.
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